If you're having trouble with what to say I suggest you go to the Bonuses section and check out My Banter Cheat Sheet. Also, check out the step by step Attraction Flowchart for knowing how to do it and the right time to do it at (link: https://the-tao-of-badass.s3.amazonaws.com/bonus/attraction-flowchart.pdf ) Start working on one concept at a time as you read the book once and go over it again. Take your time! Patience is key when you're on your journey to becoming a badass :)